The First and Last Wedding

THE FIRST AND LAST WEDDING

Parashat B’reisheet, Genesis 1:1-6:8by Rabbi Russ Resnik

The family is the true ecumenical experience of all humankind. Edwin H. Friedman

Parashat B’reisheet tells of the beginning of all things, including marriage, which is the first of all human relationships, the foundation of every human family. God himself brings the first woman to the first man, and the man says, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.” Therefore, “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh” (Gen. 2:23–24).

This foundational verse is loaded with real-life implications, and Messiah Yeshua himself cited it to define marriage as an inviolable life-time covenant (Matt. 19:4–5). I’ve always wondered, though, why it says the man shall leave his father and mother. After all, in the stories of betrothal in Genesis, it’s usually the woman who leaves her family and goes off to join the man and his family. That’s certainly the case in the beautiful story of the marriage of Isaac and Rebekah. And even in the story of Jacob, who has to leave his family and homeland to find a wife, the outcome is that he finally returns to his native land with his wives, and they leave “father and mother” to cleave to him. But this may be the exact point of Genesis 2:24. In the ancient world, everyone knows that the woman leaves father and mother when she marries a man. What’s less obvious, but equally, or perhaps even more, important is that the man must leave the nest as well—even if he stays put physically.

In counseling married couples (which I do both as a rabbi and also part-time as a clinical mental health counselor), I often find myself dealing with a husband who hasn’t left his father and mother. He and his wife may live a thousand miles away from the parents, but he’s still expecting from his wife the same sort of approval and support that he used to get—or couldn’t ever get—from his parents. Or, in the way he treats his wife, he’s still working out old unforgiveness and resentment against his parents. The recent Ken Burns documentary, “The Roosevelts: An Intimate History,” noted how Franklin Roosevelt, the only child of a wealthy and patrician family, was accustomed to the adoration of his mother, Sara Delano, which he never could get from his much more independently-minded wife, Eleanor. The distance between Franklin and Eleanor grew over the years and was compounded by his multiple affairs and dalliances.

In the terminology of Edwin Friedman, the rabbi and family therapist quoted above, Franklin—supremely confident leader that he was—failed to differentiate himself within his family. He hadn’t left father and mother enough to truly cleave to his wife, but kept his mother involved in what Friedman calls a “triangle” with himself and Eleanor the rest of his life.

There’s another revealing aspect to “leave and cleave,” which comes out in the letter to the Ephesians. It quotes Genesis 2:24 and then says, “This is a great mystery, and I am applying it to Messiah and the kehila. Each of you, however, should love his wife as himself, and a wife should respect her husband” (Eph. 5:32–33). Like Genesis 2:24, this brief passage has been a puzzlement to me for years. It applies “the two shall become one flesh” to Messiah and his body, but the whole chapter is talking about husband-wife relations, which seems to be a more direct application of the one-flesh terminology. Most of Ephesians 5:21-33 refers to the relationship between Messiah and the kehila to illustrate the proper relationship between husband and wife. But here, toward the end of the chapter, it seems like the opposite: the husband-wife relationship illustrates the relationship between Messiah and his kehila. To turn this verse around to match the rest of the chapter, I’d expect it to read, “This mystery is profound, and I am applying it to a man and his wife. Each of you, therefore, should love his wife as himself, and a wife should respect her husband.”

I’m sure you’ll all agree that my version of Ephesians 5 is an improvement on the original. But it misses a profound point. The one-flesh union of man and woman in the beginning is a hint of a more intimate and foundational union that came later—that of Messiah and his people. More specifically, the “mystery” of a man leaving father and mother to cleave to his wife is made fully known in Messiah Yeshua leaving his father to cleave to his people. When we see what Messiah did to accomplish this union with us, the community of his followers, and how he now nourishes and cherishes us as his own body, it shows us how marriage between man and woman was really meant to be all along. So Ephesians explores the mystery introduced in Genesis 2:24 as it applies to Messiah and his people, and then opens up that mystery to show how husband and wife are to live together in Messiah.

For those who are married, of course, the implications are manifold. For those who are not married—or feel stuck in a marriage without real intimacy or satisfaction—the implications are more indirect, but no less encouraging. In today’s fragmented society there are many reasons for remaining single, and many reasons for a marriage to fail, and it’s not cause for blame or stigma. Instead, remember that marriage between one man and one woman is a reflection of a greater intimacy, which is the birthright of every member of Messiah’s body, the body that he nourishes and tenderly cares for (Eph. 5:28-30). Marriage is secondary; Messiah-kehila is primary, and every Yeshua-follower, married or single, is included in that bond.

As we renew our cycle of Torah readings this week at Simchat Torah (Oct. 16-17), we return to intensely Messianic Jewish space. We’re in Jewish space, of course, because we share in the cycle of weekly readings along with the entire Jewish world, and join the Jewish discussion of these readings that’s been thriving for two millennia. It’s Messianic space too, because from the beginning, the Torah pictures the fulfillment to come in Messiah Yeshua. The first wedding, the origin of all human relationships and foundation of every human family, is a signpost of the greater wedding that awaits us at the end of the age.

Chag Sameach – Happy Simchat Torah!

Clothing the Naked Ape

Parashat B’reisheet, Gen. 1:1-6:8

by Rabbi Paul L. Saal

Congregation Shuvah Yisrael, Bloomfield, CT

In 2002 PETA initiated its “Holocaust on a Plate”, an advertising campaign intended to draw attention to the plight of animals raised in factory farms for the purpose of satisfying America and Europe’s insatiable appetite for meat. The campaign was tasteless and insensitive, and perceived by most to accomplish more in the way of whitewashing the particularity of the Holocaust, the targeting of one race for annihilation, than it did to raise awareness of the plight of animals. What was even more horrendous was that the leadership of PETA, which is largely Jewish, defended their indiscretions despite the ire and indignation of the Jewish community. This, of course, could be the introduction to a homily on a number of topics such as, Antisemitism, Jewish Assimilation, The Complicity of Jewish Intelligentsia in Antisemitism, or Is Another Holocaust Possible. But none of these is the issue that I wish to address here. My reason for mentioning the PETA campaign is to raise the idea that polarizing zealotry and ill-conceived approaches to concerns for the animal population has often distracted religious Jews and Christians from their ignorance of the first commandment in the Bible.

And God said, “Let the land produce living creatures according to their kinds: livestock, creatures that move along the ground, and wild animals, each according to its kind.” And it was so. God made the wild animals according to their kinds, the livestock according to their kinds, and all the creatures that move along the ground according to their kinds. And God saw that it was good.

Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.” (Genesis 1:24-26 NIV)

Here the Divine injunctions for humanity to proliferate and to subdue the still chaotic creation cannot be separated from the pronouncement that humankind is to do so as the image bearers of the Creator in this world. Therefore how we understand and treat our “dominion” over creation and creature is directly related to how we imagine our Creator and ourselves.

In pagan cultures the pantheons of gods were understood to be selfish, cruel, and capricious, existing only to serve their own enormous appetites. Humankind was to live in fear of such gods, offering sacrifices to appease them. The scandal of the ancient world was that Israel claimed to be ruled over by a God who was the one and only Creator who cared for all of creation, and maintained loving and purposeful relationship with Israel. He was a benevolent king who served the best interests of His creation, subduing chaos and holding calamity in abeyance so long as his servants remained under His protective care. This becomes even more evident in the incarnation of Yeshua who took on the mantle of a servant king, reminiscent of the Divine purpose for humanity, which was created in God’s image.

The second divine command to humankind is to till the ground (2:15). The Hebrew word used here is l’avdah, which literally means to serve or worship. Humans were intended to image God as both kings and as servants of the creation. If Israel and by extension the Church is to be obedient to the commands and ordinances of Torah, they must image God as kings and priests, sovereigns and servants, harbingers of a renewed humanity, dedicated to God’s original purposes. Worship is our ritual performance of the primordial intention for triangulated service between God, humanity, and creation. Theologian Jon Levenson refers to this dual role as “an aristocracy of humility.” But what does this mean if those who claim to be dedicated to God ravage His creation with no regard for either Creator or creature?

In 2001 a plague of foot-and-mouth disease started in a British slaughterhouse and spread throughout Europe. Newspapers and news networks carried images of hundreds of thousands, and then millions of cattle being shot, thrown in burning pyres and bulldozed into unmarked graves. The horrifying fact though is that foot-and-mouth disease is fatal to neither animal nor human. It is a form of influenza, which is treatable with veterinary care and preventable by vaccination. Millions of these animals were not affected, but were killed rather because their trade value had been diminished and trade policies required it.

Across the country animals for market are raised in factory farms. They are held in seclusion in dark, stainless steel chambers, where they are better and more efficiently fattened for their time of slaughter.  From birth they never see the light of day, or play or run free as God created them to do. Apparently the only god that is being served by the meat industry is that of consumerism.  And yet where is the voice of outrage from the religious community?

Though insensitive and ill-conceived it is not difficult to understand how the folks at PETA were awakened to the imagery of the Holocaust. What is more difficult to understand is why those of us who claim to be God’s people seemingly care little to exhibit His mercy for His most vulnerable creatures. All too often, as a response to the “dominion” we have been given, we claimed the right to do what we wish, because we can.  The prophetic passages though evoke imagery of a time when all will be made right and justified on earth and Isaiah states that lion and the calf will lie down together. Are we to believe that when the entire world is in harmony only humankind will be the feared predators? Shouldn’t we who claim to be harbingers of a new humanity begin now to work toward this prophetic reality? Are we willing to subordinate some of our own desires in the process?

In every act of kindness we hold in our hands the mercy of our Creator, whose purposes are in life and death, whose love does not stop at us but rather surrounds us, bestowing dignity and beauty and hope on every creature that lives and suffers and perishes. Perhaps the animals’ role among us is to awaken humility, to open our hearts to that most impractical of hopes in which all creation speaks as one. For them as for us, if there is any hope at all then it is the same hope, and the same love, and the same God who shall “wipe every tear from their eyes; and there will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the former things has passed away.” (Revelation 21:4)

In the Beginning

“In the beginning” 

Parashat Bereisheet, Genesis 1:1-6:8

by Jonathan Roush

This week we are reminded of many different beginnings. Earlier this week we rolled the Torah scroll all the way back to its beginning, and each passage we read this week talks about the beginning of the world in some way.

Bereisheet (Genesis) opens with the beginning of the world:

“In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth.” (Gen. 1:1 ESV)

The passage from Isaiah also hearkens back to the beginning of creation:

“Thus says God, the Lord, who created the heavens and stretched them out, who spread out the earth and what comes from it…” (Is. 42:5 ESV)

Lastly, we read where John, referring to Yeshua, openly proclaimed:

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God” (John 1:1 Delitzsch Hebrew Gospels)

A few weeks ago on Rosh Hashanah we began the year 5773 and ten days later on Yom Kippur we repented of our sin and asked for a fresh start to this new year. We have been in a season of new beginnings and hopefully, this hasn’t escaped us.

So where does all of this focus on “beginnings” leave us?

Each of these beginnings is an opportunity to adjust or re-adjust the things in our lives that aren’t quite up to par. Perhaps we haven’t been treating those around us with the respect that they deserve, or maybe we haven’t been taking care of our bodies in the way we should. Maybe we haven’t been spending quality time in prayer or in reading the Scriptures.

Since we are once again beginning our yearly journey through the Torah, it’s this last point that I would like to focus on. Because we read through the Torah every year, perhaps there is a temptation to not pay as much as attention as you should. Of course, maybe it is just me, but I don’t think I am alone in this.  After all, we’ve read it before and we’ve heard it before too, right?

Let’s be honest: (meaningful) reading takes discipline. In our Technicolor world of bright lights and constant sound it can be especially difficult for us to quiet our own minds and focus.Readingdemands that you remove outside stimulus in order to really comprehend.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not kvetching. I like to read, so I don’t generally see it as a chore. I am not sure if I was born with an innate love of reading or if it was the “Read-a-thon” fundraisers at school, the Pizza Hut “Book It!” program, or the summer reading programs my parents made me and my sister sign up for every year. Regardless of the cause(s) I really love reading a good book. Even if this doesn’t describe you, we all live in an age in which it is easy to fall prey to distractions and fast transactions, an age that’s not really conducive to reading and taking time to study without making a deliberate choice. These things don’t just happen on their own.

So let’s be deliberate right now. You and I. Turn the TV off, ignore the text messages, and close Facebook. Let’s go back and read those opening verses of Genesis, and let’s not just breeze through them.

“In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was without form and void, and darkness was over the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters.” (Genesis 1: 1-2 ESV)

The Jerusalem Targum translates verse 2 as:

“And the earth was vacancy and desolation, solitary of the sons of men and void of every animal, and the darkness was upon the face of the abyss; and the Spirit of Mercies from before the Lord breathed upon the face of the waters.”

Now, there is a picture! Vacant. Desolate. Cold. Things were in utter chaos until “the Spirit of Mercies” intervened. Ah, divine intervention establishing order in the midst of so much chaos. Once I read that it became much harder for me to mindlessly gloss over those verses. It made them much more alive and real to me. Are the Scriptures alive to you?

While I can’t tell you that it will ever be the easiest thing, I can tell you that, as with any discipline, deliberate reading and study of the Scripture does get easier as you carve out the time and the quiet needed. Is there a better time of the year than now to dedicate ourselves to real and life giving study of God’s word?

To study God’s word is to better know our Messiah, Yeshua, the living Word. After all he is indeed the living embodiment of the Scripture as John proclaimed in his gospel.

“He was in the beginning with God. Everything was made to exist through him, and nothing that was made to exist was made to exist except by him. There was life in him, and the life was light for the sons of men.” (John 1:2-4 Delitzsch Hebrew Gospels)

If we truly “live and move and have our being” in and through him, let’s commit ourselves to do better in our studying than we have before. As we restart our journey through the Torah let’s be careful not to squander this beginning.  Instead let’s focus with greater determination as we read, study, and learn, to follow our Messiah.

May we find God’s word more alive, vibrant and relevant than we have in the past and, through our study, may we find ourselves being transformed more and more into the likeness of Yeshua.

Jonathan Roush

Beth Messiah Congregation,Gaithersburg,MD

How to Mess Up Your Life

Shabbat B’reisheet—“How to Mess Up Your Life”

SHABBAT B’REISHEET—“HOW TO MESS UP YOUR LIFE”

By Rabbi Barney Kasdan, Kehilat Ariel, San Diego

How to Mess Up Your Life. As a rabbi, I usually don’t like to give this kind of counsel to people! But the famous story in this first parasha of the year begs the question.   

Shabbat B’reisheet is filled with some amazing revelation of the beginnings of the universe and mankind.  Sadly, it doesn’t take long for humanity to fall from God’s Paradise.  If that wasn’t bad enough, the next generation continued the downward slope as illustrated in the life of Cain.  Actually his birth was perceived as potentially a great blessing.  Not only was Cain the firstborn, but his mother Chava/Eve saw a possible fulfillment of even the messianic promise of Genesis 3:15 (the seed of the woman to crush all evil).  Immediately after giving birth, Chava exclaims, “Kaniti ish et Adonai! I have acquired a man with HaShem!” Literally the Hebrew is better translated “I have acquired a man, the Lord!” This is not only a play on words in the original language (kaniti / Kayin / Cain), but it makes sense that Chava thought her firstborn might actually be the predicted One, even the Mashiach.

Cain would in fact fall far short of such expectations as he brings an inferior sacrifice to the altar of God while his younger brother Abel brings the best from his flock.  Some speculate that the problem was that Cain brought a fruit offering while Abel brought an animal offering.  The text does not make that distinction but something is clearly going on.  A midrash says that Cain actually ate his animal offering and offered some low-grade flax to the Lord.  If that is the case then Cain was in disobedience.  Maybe it was more about attitude.  Whatever the case, the New Covenant states that Abel “offered a better sacrifice” (Hebrews 11:4).   Essentially Cain seems to run into problems because he is doing his own thing.  That is a great first step to messing up our own life, is it not?  Too often people create their own problems by following their own skewed decisions and not listening to God’s counsel in the Scripture.

In this parasha we are told another great way to mess up our lives.  This is by ignoring any loving correction by God.  After his rejected offering, Cain does not correct the situation but goes even further in the wrong direction.  His anger is evident even in his body language and demeanor as God asks, “why has your countenance fallen?”  Cain is offered a way of restoration and blessing but chooses to let the evil inclination take control of his life.  This leads to the tragic murder of Abel, the first recorded in history.  It didn’t have to be this way.  What started as a bad situation for Cain could have been corrected, especially with God’s help in his life.  But he chose the way of anger and resentment which in turn culminated in murder.  This is a sure-fire way to make any situation worse than it already is:  ignore any loving correction from God.  As our tradition says, the gates of repentance are always open.  It is the repeated story of human experience that we mess things up when we do our own thing.  Just look at the daily news!  But how doubly tragic when people not only do their own thing but continue down a road of not receiving loving correction from their Heavenly Father.  The story of Cain reminds us to keep on listening for God’s good direction for our life.

Believe it or not, Cain takes his tragic experience to an even deeper level of tzuris.  In the midst of doing his own thing and not listening to correction, he then proceeds to blame everyone else for his problems!  This seems to come out in two of his statements in the Torah.  First, he asks the famous question “ha-shomer achi anochi? Am I my brother’s keeper?” To paraphrase, “God, why did you put me in this position?” Second, Cain takes issue with the consequences of his actions by asking, “Is my iniquity too great?”  Evidently he questions God in the midst of his judgment.  The tragic spiral of Cain’s life has just hit a new depth.  After doing his own thing and ignoring God’s correction, he simply blames everyone else for his problems!  It seems a logical conclusion as the Torah notes that after all this, “Cain left the presence of HaShem.”  This was no doubt both a physical and spiritual departure.  How sad.  How unnecessary.  But such are some of the lessons from the life of Cain.

Maybe it is quite appropriate that this first parasha of the New Year reminds us all on how to mess up our lives?   If we received the message of the Holy Days correctly, then we have re-established a good relationship with God and with those around us.  It should be a little taste of Paradise restored.  Let’s not mess up our own lives by following the example of Cain.  Let us stay close and listen to our Messiah Yeshua to enjoy that abundant life he promised.   

Shabbat Shalom!

Joshua on the Margins

Shelach L’cha—Joshua on the Margins

by Rabbi Russ Resnik

This week’s parasha brings us to a climax in Israel’s story of deliverance. A few chapters earlier, the tribes of Israel finally departed from Mount Sinai, where they had camped for nearly a year to receive the Torah, build the tabernacle, and inaugurate the priesthood. Finally, the cloud of glory rose up from the encampment and Israel moved on, as Moses called out the words we repeat to this day when we take the Torah scroll out from the ark: “Kuma Adonai. Arise O Lord, and let your enemies be scattered! May those who hate you flee before You!” (Num. 10:35).

Now, in this week’s reading, Moses sends forth twelve scouts to spy out the territory beyond the Jordan and prepare Israel to take possession of the Promised Land. But, of course, ten spies return with an evil report that terrifies the Israelites, who refuse to go forward and take the land. The entire generation will die in the wilderness, except for Joshua and Caleb, the two spies who brought a report of faith and encouragement.

The conquest of the Promised Land must await a new generation, which we read about in the haftarah portion for this week, Joshua 2. There, Joshua, like Moses before him, sends spies to scout out the land. Unlike Moses, however, Joshua sends only two spies instead of twelve, reflecting the fact that only two of the original spies brought a positive report. Now, the two spies return and tell Joshua, “The Lord has delivered the whole land into our power; in fact, all the inhabitants of the land are quaking before us.” The haftarah concludes with these words, but let’s follow the story a little further. This time the Israelites do not lose heart. As the people mobilize to cross the Jordan, the waters of the river part and the Israelites cross on dry ground to set foot on the Promised Land. There they renew the covenant of circumcision, which had been neglected during the wandering in the wilderness. Then they celebrate Passover and begin to eat the produce of the land as the manna ceases and their wanderings are over.

We are ready for a complete reversal of the failure recorded in Shelach L’cha. But first, Joshua has an encounter that will mark this conquest as different from any invasion or military campaign in history.

• Once, when Joshua was near Jericho, he looked up and saw a man standing before him, drawn sword in hand. Joshua went up to him and asked him, “Are you one of us or of our enemies?” He replied, “No, I am captain of the Lord’s host. Now I have come!” Joshua threw himself face down to the ground and, prostrating himself, said to him, “What does my lord command his servant?” The captain of the Lord’s host answered Joshua, “Remove your sandals from your feet, for the place where you stand is holy.” And Joshua did so. (Joshua 5:13-15, NJPS)

The man lets Joshua know that he’s not the center of the divine drama, that even Israel is not the center, but only God himself. When Joshua asks what he is to do, the man only tells him to remove his sandals in the presence of holiness. The encounter with the divine is inexplicable, totally other, and it transforms Joshua from a warrior, girded for battle, to a worshiper with bare feet, his face to the ground. Joshua will become a warrior again, but only after he takes a position in which he cannot conquer anything, at least by human means.

This place of holiness is also a place on the margins, a spot in no man’s land outside the camp of Israel and outside of Jericho. And so we learn that what is central in God’s geography may be marginal in the calculations of man, and what is central in man’s estimation may be marginal in God’s.

In Messianic Judaism, we see the man that Joshua encounters as a hint of the Messiah to come, the captain of the Lord’s hosts who has come to disclose the holiness of God and bring us into it. Joshua’s response—baring his feet and falling on his face—looks like weakness. Paradoxically, however, it reflects the true strength exemplified in the crucified Messiah, who tells us, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my strength is made perfect in weakness” (2 Cor. 12:9). It’s as if, on the eve of Israel’s great victory and display of power, the Lord reminds Joshua that it’s not about power, not about victory through the means the dominant culture presents. Instead, the true power is to be found on the holy ground of the margins, in the irreducible, transformative encounter with God. Without this encounter all of our efforts will fail and fade away.

Joshua on the margins teaches us many lessons in addition to this essential one, and I’ll touch on one that pertains to the challenge of building Messianic Jewish communities. Joshua encountered the divine on the margins, not only geographically but also in terms of how things get done in this world. The 16th century Jewish commentator Abarbanel writes,

• By telling Joshua to remove his sandals, the angel was signifying that Jericho could not be conquered by physical means. The Land was holy, and Israel’s enemies would be defeated only through God’s miracles. And Joshua did so, not merely in the literal sense that he removed his sandals, but that he discarded any thoughts of triumph by mere force of arms. (Quoted in The Early Prophets Artscroll Pub., p. 25)

In our secular age, all congregations—church and synagogue—are marginal. Membership in mainstream groups is declining. It is no longer conventional, that is, expected and beneficial for social standing, but can actually be a stigma. This reality leads to membership that is intentional, where people join out of conviction, expecting membership to reflect their faith and commitment. Messianic Jewish groups have never become established enough to provide conventional reasons for people to join us. Hence, we can embrace our place on the margins, outside today’s dominant culture of consumerism and hyper-individualism, to become intentional congregations and sacred communities.

One prominent rabbi contrasts the dominant market community with sacred community:

• The everyday is what we use as means to ends. The sacred exists as its own end. . . .  Sacred community . . . is devoted to certain tasks, but these can be realized only in a sacred ambience, not in a market community where people weigh value by the list of limited liability deliverables that they think their dues are buying.1

Much good may proceed from a sacred community, but it is not constituted just to get a job done or to provide a collection of programs, projects, and benefits for dues (or tithe) paying consumers. Congregation is not a means to an end, but a gathering under Hashem in a shared vision of his holiness and purpose. In the Messianic world it is a gathering of those who have experienced the transforming encounter with the divine. When a member begins to ask, “What’s in it for me?” he or she is already turning away from sacred community to the cult of consumerism. Congregation as sacred community is inherently marginal to the dominant culture, but it becomes the place where a more profound marginality is overcome. It reflects the way of Yeshua, who met us on the margins to bring us into the heart of God’s story.

Joshua worshiping on the margins reminds us not to depend upon human power, particularly the power of individualism and self-satisfaction that is marketed to us every hour. Like Joshua, we may have to leave the holy ground to serve God’s purposes, but we return transformed. The challenge is to remember and continually count on the truth that all we do depends on God’s power and not our own-particularly in an age fascinated with human accomplishment and technology, and the quest for self-fulfillment.

Within this setting the word of the Lord is, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my strength is made perfect in weakness.” Can we respond like Rav Shaul? “Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Messiah may rest upon me.”

Rabbi Russ Resnik: rebrez@umjc.org

Part of this commentary appeared earlier in “Hesed and Hospitality” by Russ Resnik, in Kesher: A Journal of Messianic Judaism, Issue 23, Fall/Winter 2009.

Wanted: Stonewashed Rugged Faith

Beshalach – Wanted: Stonewashed Rugged Faith

by Rebbetzin Malkah Forbes,

Seattle, WA

When the Baal Shem Tov was young, he lived in the mountains of southern Russia.

From time to time he would walk to the top of a mountain, and lose himself in thought.

Lost to the world, lost to himself, but found to G-d.Deep in this lostness and this foundness, he once began to walk where there was no ground to walk on.

As he put his foot down, he was stepping into an abyss.

But before he could hurtle downward, a nearby mountain moved, and closed the gap.

The Baal Shem, all unknowing, continued on firm ground:  lost to the world, lost to himself, but found to G-d.         – – Chassidic tale

Stonewashing is a process in the textile industry that is used to give a new denim cloth garment a worn-out appearance. This process also helps to increase the softness and flexibility of otherwise stiff and rigid fabrics such as denim.  This process entails what the name implies: washing the denim with large stones to roughen up and soften the cloth. As stones represent an obstacle or hardship, the denim is likened to B’nei Yisrael’s fabric of faith.  The challenges that Hashem places before B’nei Yisrael as they travel through the wilderness are meant to tenderize and increase their faith.  Moshe, Mashiach Yeshua and the Baal Shem Tov all prove to us that through this stonewashing comes a small seed of faith that can rise above the evil, chaos and doubt that prevail in our midst. Not only can we move mountains, but we can be a conduit of faith and possibility to those around us, even in the most impossible of circumstances.

A SEA OF DOUBT

Water.  It gives life to plants, fish, and humans.  Too much, we drown.  Too little, we die.  Both extremes lead to certain death.  But something in the middle brings life and a flourishing society.  As B’nei Yisrael approaches the Sea of Reeds and finds Pharoah’s army at their back, how do they make peace with the water?  The water is merely a test of their faith.  As the army of doom draws near, it is clear that the people have great doubt and are paralyzed with fear.

“Do not fear!  Stand fast and see the salvation of Hashem that He will perform for you today; for as you have seen Egypt today, you shall not see them ever again.  Hashem shall make war for you and you shall be silent.”  Shemot 14: 13-14

According to the Midrash, the sea would not part until the Israelites had enough courage to enter the waters first. However, one man by the name of Nachshon ben Ammindav from the tribe of Judah (and, according to the rabbis, Aaron’s brother-in-law), had faith greater than any seed of doubt.  He stepped forward and walked straight into the waters of the sea and thus they began to split. To this day, the rabbis attribute faith and courage to Nachshon ben Ammindav.  For him, the Sea of Reeds was like a stone in the stonewashing of his faith.  He allowed himself to be malleable to the divine will and submitted himself to the test in order to soften his will.  Rather than fall into despair, he used the moment to turn the sea of doubt into a moment to commune with Hashem.

As Hashem brings B’nei Yisrael though the wall of water, Egypt’s greatest warriors are consumed by the water.  As the multitudes stand on the shore and observe, they receive a great injection of faith.  But it won’t be enough as they encounter their next obstacle.  Their garments of faith aren’t finished being stonewashed. There are yet to be more stones to transform their faith.

WATER, WATER EVERYWHERE AND NOT A DROP TO DRINK

As the parasha continues, we encounter B’nei Yisrael in the midst of the wilderness with the opposite predicament.  Instead of standing before a sea of water, they stand before a sea of sand in Marah and a pool of water that is bitter and undrinkable.

He [Moshe] cried out to Hashem, and Hashem showed him a tree; he threw it into the water and the water became sweet….He[Moshe] said, “If you hearken diligently to the voice of Hashem, your G-d, and do what is just in His eyes, give ear to His commandments and observe all His decrees, then any of the diseases that I placed in Egypt, I will not bring upon you, for I am Hashem, your Healer.”  They arrived at Elim, where there were twelve springs of water and seventy date palms; they encamped there by the water.                  Shemot 15:25-27

The Baal Shem Tov says that even with water before them, the doubt and bitterness within their souls after three days of wandering have spoiled the water and made it undrinkable.  Their own negativity and inability to see beyond themselves sour even their environment.   Moshe Rabbeinu, however, calls out in faith to sweeten the waters for the people, almost like giving a candy to a wailing child to sooth and assuage.  What is interesting is the use of the words chuq u’mishpat – literally decrees and ordinances.  Mishpatim tend to be easier to follow since in many cases they are logical.  Following the decrees – chuqim – which at times don’t always have a logical component, would be the litmus test.  Despite the decrees, would they possess even a shard of doubt that would hamper their ability to obey?

HAMAN OR HAMAN?

The next challenge B’nei Yisrael encounters is hunger.  Quickly forgetting the date palms and the water at Elim, they believe they are going to perish for lack of food.  Moshe again implores Hashem on their behalf and the manna falls from the heavens.  This food, spiritually necessary and easily assimilated, would be the key to purifying their souls and honing their ways.  They would gather a day’s worth of manna and enough on the sixth day to carry them through Shabbat.  How then could any doubt remain in their hearts if they were sustained daily with heavenly food in the harshest of conditions?  The answer is that when they gathered the manna, they did so with reservation.  They proved this when they disobeyed the decree not to gather manna on Shabbat.

It happened on the seventh day that some of the people went to gather, and they did not find.  Hashem said to Moshe, “How long will you refuse to observe My commandments and My teachings?  See that Hashem has given you the Sabbath; that is why He gives you on the sixth day a two-day portion of bread. “ Shemot 16:27-29

From here on, we see again the reservations of B’nei Yisrael as they continue on and camp at Rephidim.  Their doubt brings the absence of water as well as an adversary known as Amalek and his army.  This attack comes not because Hashem wanted to test them, but because B’nei Yisrael lacked the ability to trust in Hashem.  Their refusal to obey the commandment of manna showed that they lacked “spiritual water”, or Torah precepts, and this doubt brought about not only their physical lack but also their ultimate enemy.

HaShem maintains a war against Amalek from generation to generation.     Shemot 17:16

While Hashem could have certainly defeated Amalek, it is evident that this is not the job of our Creator.  As our rejection of manna continues on today through our flippant adherence to the Torah, Hashem will continue to allow our struggle with Amalek.  This is a stone to tenderize us for a lifetime.  Is it a coincidence that the word for manna – HaMan – is spelled the same way as Haman? Through our rejection of the decree of the manna we seeded something else quite disastrous.  As we received Haman, a descendant of Amalek,  during the time of Esther, so too have other figures in history come against B’nei Yisrael with the same spirit. Amalek is the representation of doubt and unbelief in G-d’s existence; his name is equal to 240 and is s ynonymous with the word doubt – safek – which also equals 240.   Amalek, and all who operate in his spirit, are the absence of faith in the miracles of G-d and also the denial of His authority in men’s affairs.  This is the stone that will continue to brush against our faith and either cause us to become stronger, or ultimately become our demise if we fail to trust in Hashem.

CLOSING THE GAP

Mashiach Yeshua declares that the smallest amount of faith is enough to accomplish even the greatest feats.

I tell you that if you have trust as tiny as a mustard seed, you will be able to say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there’ and it will move; indeed, nothing will be impossible for you.     Matthew 17:20

Then Kefa called to him, “Lord, if it is really you, tell me to come to you on the water.”  “Come!” he said. So Kefa got out of the boat and walked on the water toward Yeshua.  But when he saw the wind, he became afraid; and as he began to sink, he yelled, “Lord!  Save me!”  Yeshua immediately stretched out his hand, took hold of him, and said to him, “Such little trust!  Why did you doubt?”  Matthew 14:28-31

Just as Moshe stretched out his hand many times and was a conduit for miracles and faith, so too did Yeshua stretch out his hand and continues doing so to us today. While we are not the ones who experienced the miracles of our forbearers directly, we must believe the power of the Holy One and stamp out doubt.  For if we doubt, we grow weak and the spirit of Amalek has dominion in our lives.  Our faith needs to be like a pair of stonewashed jeans…. flexible, transformed and enduring.  May our faith be like the toughest Levi’s – up to the job, reliable and prevailing in all circumstances of life.

Yasher Koach and Shabbat Shalom…..

Kingdom Building vs Building the Kingdom

Bereisheet 5770 – Kingdom Building vs. Building the Kingdom

BEREISHEET 5770 – KINGDOM BUILDING VS. BUILDING THE KINGDOM

by Rabbi Stuart Dauermann, PhD

This Haftarah is a special one for any Shabbat that falls the day before Rosh Chodesh, as does October 17, this year. This Haftarah (Shmuel Aleph/1 Samuel 20:18-42) provides an opportunity to see the contrast between Saul and Jonathan in how they related to David. With one king and two heirs apparent in the chapter, it is no surprise that the text is all about kingdom building.

Saul is obsessed with building and protecting his kingdom. The text portrays Saul as a study in jealousy and self-involvement. He is a personal kingdom builder. Jonathan is the Crown Prince–the heir apparent. In contrast to his father, he is willing to risk his personal kingdom because of his covenant of friendship with David. And it is David, not Jonathan, who will be the next king of Israel.

Jonathan admires David from the time he first sees him in the encounter with Goliath. The text earlier tells us that this was when “His soul was knit to the soul of David” (1 Samuel 18:1). The women of Israel, ecstatic over David’ military prowess, sing his praises: “Saul has slain his thousands, but David his ten thousands” (1 Samuel 18:7). This further infects Saul’s already diseased soul. Jealous, narcissistic, paranoid and determined, he dispatches David on various military fools’ errands, trying to get him killed by the Philistines. But Jonathan’s admiration for David only grows.

Like all good people, inclined to believe the best about others, Jonathan thinks that his father’s animosity toward David is a passing storm, already blown over. But in this Haftarah, Jonathan realizes things are far worse than he imagined. If David doesn’t go into hiding immediately, Saul will have him killed. Jonathan and David come to terms with reality and recognize they must part for David’s sake. First, they renew their covenant of friendship, saying, “Go in peace! For we two have sworn to each other in the name of the Lord: ‘May the Lord be [witness] between you and me, and between your offspring and mine, forever'” (1 Samuel 20:42).

This is a finely crafted tale of covenant making and covenant keeping, of unselfish caring for the well-being of another. This is made all the more striking when we see Jonathan’s unselfishness against the dark background of Saul’s competitive and paranoid personal kingdom building.

What kinds of covenants do we have with those around us? And what might it mean for us to be more like Jonathan, looking out for others, even against self-interest, rather than being like Saul, who looked out only for himself? Three terms from our tradition can help us answer these questions: Ahavat Yisrael, Ahavat Habriot and Ahavat Chesed.

I recently read a wise assessment by a Jewish religious professional who said that the greatest need of our time is for all Jews to cultivate a sense of Ahavat Yisrael (love of all one’s fellow Jews), and to recognize that any Ahavat Yisrael that does lead to Ahavat HaBriot (love of humanity as a whole) is counterfeit.

In a sense this is a communal application of Hillel’s dictum-“If I am not for myself who will be for me?” but put in the collective-“If we Jews, or we Messianic Jews, are not for ourselves, who will be for us?” We need to look out for the people with whom we are affiliated, our own people.

If Ahavat Yisrael that does not lead to Ahavat HaBriot is bogus, however, we need to heed the second phrase of Hillel’s dictum-“If we are for ourselves alone, who are we?” If looking out for our own concerns is our only real horizon of interest, if we like Saul are jealous and obsessive personal kingdom builders, threatened by the success of others, then what are we? Not much! We must go beyond this to become a community of individuals of a wider horizon, people for whom the lives, the needs, and the reality of others are not peripheral concerns, but are instead the center of the arena where our love for God is demonstrated, validated, and perfected.

Although Torah says, and Messiah confirms, that we should love our neighbor as ourselves, the underlying ethic of the general culture is too often “Look out for number one,” or, “Mind your own business–don’t get involved,” or even, “Get them before they get you.” This predatory worldview echoes the philosophy of Thomas Hobbes, who wrote, “Each man is the other man’s wolf.” Builders of personal kingdoms move through the world focused on getting what they can out of others, on not being taken advantage of, hoarding time, advantage, and resources-looking out for number one. These are people on the take rather than people on the give.

People who serve the King of Kings and who build his Kingdom, have a wider vision-they recognize and honor their covenant relationships and obligations with their various circles of association, not only with family, friends, and spiritual kinship groups, but also with all living things, with the creation itself and with humanity as a whole. In our tradition, this is called “Ahavat Habriot”-the love of living things, expressed in Ahavat Chesed, covenantal caring for its own sake. Those who practice Ahavat Chesed and Ahavat Habriot relish and seek out opportunities to be honorable and unexpectedly kind, alert to every opportunity to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with their God.

Some time ago, I was teaching a workshop at a local church when a Christian woman raised a question born of her insecurity about sharing her faith with brilliant and well-educated Jewish co-workers.”How can I share my faith with my co-workers when they are so smart and well-e ducated?” I told her that sharing one’s faith is not a matter of matching IQ’s point for point, nor educations degree for degree. What really penetrates and sinks into the marrow of people’s bones is the quality of our relationships-the degree to which we do justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with our God. When we live this way, the weight of our lives establishes the truth of our faith in ways that bypass all defenses and differences of status.

Poet Adrienne Rich wrote this in 1991:

In those years, people will say, we lost track of the meaning of we, of you

We found ourselves reduced to I

And the whole thing became silly, ironic, terrible:

We were trying to live a personal life

And yes, that was the only life we could bear witness to

But the great dark birds of history screamed and plunged

into our personal weather

They were headed somewhere else but their beaks and pinions drove

Along the shore, through the rage of fog

Where we stood saying ‘I’

Defenseless under the night

Our world in stupor lies;

Yet dotted everywhere,

Ironic points of light

Flash out wherever the Just

Exchange their messages:

May I, composed like them

Of Eros and of dust,

Beleaguered by the same

Negation and despair,

Show an affirming flame.

(“In Those Years.” Found online at http://www.americanpoems.com/poets/adrienne_rich/11746“

And may that be true of all of us as we live out Ahavat Yisrael-the love of our own people, Ahavat Habriot-the love or all people and of all living things, and Ahavat Chesed-covenantal caring, seeking justice, loving mercy, and walking humbly with our God just for the holy beauty of it all and the joy of pleasing Him.

So, shall we put down Saul’s pathetic scepter of personal kingdom building, and take up Jonathan’s princely crown of service to the King of Kings, the Son of David.

“If we are not for ourselves, who will be for us? And if we are for ourselves alone, what are we? And if not now, when ?” (Pirkei Avot, 1:14).

Clothes Make the Man

Shelach 5769 – Clothes Make the Man

by Rabbi Russ Resnik

Years ago, when I worked as a salesman, our manager gave everyone a copy of the book Dress for Success.1 This was more than a fashion book. Rather, it was a study of how different styles and colors influenced one’s effectiveness. In one test, a man wearing a beige raincoat asked people passing by for handouts and collected a tidy sum. Later he did the same in a gray raincoat and came up empty-handed. The book abounds with examples like this. Apparently, at least on a human level, clothes do make the man.

The Torah turns this principle around-clothing cannot make us something we are not, but it can remind us what we are supposed to be. Moses instructs the Israelites “to make tassels on the corners of their garments throughout their generations, and to put a blue thread in the tassels of the corners. And you shall have the tassel, that you may look upon it and remember all the commandments of the Lord and do them” (Num. 15:38-39).

“Tassel” is tzitzit in Hebrew, and such tassels are worn by Jewish men to this day. Traditional Jews wear a four-cornered undergarment with tassels that either appear on the outside of their pants, hanging down from the waist, or remain under the outer clothing, out of sight. The traditional prayer shawl, or tallit, has a tzitzit at each corner, thus providing another way to fulfill the commandment.

In the ancient world, nobles wore garments with ornate hems as a sign of their status. “The more important the individual, the more elaborate the embroidery of his hem. Its significance lies not in its artistry but in its symbolism as an extension of its owner’s person and authority.”2 Thus, a husband would divorce his wife by cutting off the hem of her garment. A seer in ancient Mari would send his report to the king and include a lock of his hair and a portion of his hem to attest its authenticity. From this we understand the significance of David’s cutting a piece of the hem off the robe of Saul, why David’s heart troubled him after he did so, and why Saul took it as a sign that David would succeed him as king (1 Sam. 24:6, 20).3 Likewise, we see more clearly why a woman in need of healing grabbed the hem of Yeshua’s garment (Matt. 9:20).

“Thus the significance of the tzitzit lies in this: It was worn by those who counted; it was the identification tag of nobility.”4 In Israel, the Torah decrees, it is not only the nobles, but every Israelite who is to wear such fringes on their garments.

The requirement to wear a thread of blue among the other threads of the tzitzit heightens its noble quality. Blue is the color of nobility, largely because of the cost of the dye in the ancient world. Indeed, the dye was so costly that the rabbis of the Talmudic era decreed that the blue thread was no longer to be worn, and the fringe should be white, so that all Jewish men would enjoy equal dignity.5 Nevertheless, the original significance remains. Blue is the color of royalty, and therefore the color of the priestly garments and the tabernacle itself. The single blue thread of the tzitzit reflects the single blue thread that held the golden head plate of the High Priest, on which were inscribed the words kodesh l’Adonai, “Holy to the Lord” (Exod. 28:36). Just as the priestly garment was made of both linen and woolen strands-a combination forbidden to the ordinary Israelites-so the early rabbis ordained that the tzitzit contain both white linen and blue woolen strands. “Thus the tzitzit, according to the rabbis, are modeled after a priestly garment that is taboo for the rest of Israel!”6

It is clear, then, that the tzitzit not only reminds the Israelites to obey the commandments, but it also reveals that they receive these commandments as a holy priesthood. Obedience is not just a way to keep the Israelites in line. Rather, it expresses the holiness of their calling and the purpose of their redemption from Egypt. Hence, the Lord concludes the instruction of the tzitzit with the words, “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, to be your God: I am the Lord your God” (Num. 15:41).

This is indeed a lofty calling. Yet, even more striking is its position in the text of Numbers. We are in Parashat Shlach L’kha, which opens with Moses sending twelve men, one from each tribe, to scout out the Land of Israel in preparation for its conquest. The story ends, of course, in disaster. Ten of the twelve scouts bring back an evil report. Only Joshua and Caleb encourage the people to take the Land. The people believe the majority, refuse to take the Land as God has commanded, and end up being condemned to perish in the wilderness. This incident is not the first trial Moses faces in the book of Numbers. In the chapter before we learned of the complaints of his own siblings, Aaron and Miriam, and the Lord’s chastisement upon Miriam. Finally, just before the ordinance of the tzitzit, we hear of a man who breaks the Shabbat and is condemned to be stoned to death.

After the ordinance is given, things do not improve at all. The following chapter tells of the rebellion of Korach, who joins with Dathan, Abiram, and others to challenge the authority of Moses and Aaron. The Lord puts down this rebellion in the most drastic way, with the earth swallowing up Korach and his family, and fire from heaven striking down 250 other rebels.

The way Numbers tells the story makes it clear that when the Lord clothes the Israelites as priests, he does so fully knowing their tendency to rebel. The holy garment is not a reward for faithfulness, because they have hardly been faithful. Instead, the tzitzit expresses the faithfulness of God. By it, he calls into being a holy priesthood out of the unqualified and unworthy.

Is it possible that God still views Israel as a holy priesthood, despite its corporate failure to acknowledge Yeshua as Lord and Messiah, and still has a holy destination in mind for the whole people? As Paul reminded the Gentiles who believed in Yeshua, “Concerning the gospel they are enemies for your sake, but concerning the election they are beloved for the sake of the fathers. For the gifts and the calling of God are irrevocable” (Rom. 11:28-29).

Clothes make the man. The tzitzit not only reminds Israel of the irrevocable commandments of the Lord, but of their irrevocable calling as a royal priesthood and a holy nation.

In our day, we are seeing a great move of reconciliation between Christians and Jews. Despite the Jewish “no” to Yeshua, God still has a glorious plan for the Jewish people, a plan that will ultimately be fulfilled in this same Yeshua. As the tzitzit is a reminder to Israel of their holy calling, so may it be a reminder to Christians, after centuries of anti-Jewish attitudes and actions, to love and honor the Jewish people.

For the journey: God has an unchangeable purpose that brings together Jews and Christians. There are visible reminders of this purpose in the world around me. How might I display such a reminder, like the tzitzit, in my own life?

(This week’s commentary is from Rabbi Resnik’s book Creation to Completion, available here)

IT WAS THE BEST OF TIMES … IT WAS THE WORST OF TIMES

Beresheet 5769

It was the best of times … It was the worst of times

By Howard Silverman, President of the UMJC

It was the best of times …it was the worst of times. This opening sentence from Dickens’s A Tale of Two Cities sums up the first Torah portion of the year – B’Reisheet. In B’Reisheet we read about the creation of the world and the desire of God to bless mankind with a beautiful place to live, companionship, the ability to easily cultivate the ground and bear children and have intimacy with God (Gen. 1:26-31). The second chapter of Genesis elaborates on this condition of blessing. In verse 7 we read that man was formed out of the dust of the ground and that God breathed life into him. This description of the creation of man coming from "dust" and that God breathed life into him shows the unique relationship that man is supposed to have with God and the earth. The formation of woman from the rib of the man and the fact that they were "naked and not ashamed" describes the unique intimacy between man and woman.

All in all, life is supposed to be rich and satisfying. Truly it should be the best of times. We read in chapter three, however, that a breakdown begins to occur in the relationship between man and God with seeds of doubt planted in the mind of the woman and the eventual disobedience of the man and the woman when they eat from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. This breakdown is also evident in the depiction of Adam and Eve hiding from God after they have sinned. There is also a breakdown in the relationship between the man and woman. This can be seen in the words, then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loin coverings (Gen. 3:7).Nakedness symbolized the intimacy of man and woman. The need for coverings symbolizes a lack of intimacy. The words of Adam also describe the breakdown in intimacy when he says, The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me from the tree, and I ate (gen. 3:12). In these words, we see that Adam blames God and refers to his wife as the "the woman whom you gave to me." There is clearly a move away from the rich, intimate relationships depicted earlier. The blessings become "twisted" and what to be easy and satisfying become difficult: childbirth would be painful and it would become difficult to till the soil. In addition, the relationship of the man and woman would not be easy to maintain. In other words, man goes from a state of intimacy and satisfaction to alienation and difficulty.

Chapter four of Genesis serves as a paradigm of how this new situation works out in life. The story of Cain and Abel is one of the most famous stories in the Bible. There are popular songs about Cain and Abel, and many are familiar with Steinbeck’s East of Eden, which is based on the story of Cain and Abel. A few years ago PBS ran a program on "the first murder."  

Cain and Abel are the two sons of Adam and Eve. Cain, a farmer, is the older and Abel, a shepherd, is younger. They each present a sacrifice to God. Cain presents fruit from the land and Abel presents the best of his flock. God accepts the sacrifice of Abel but has no regard for the sacrifice of Cain. Over the centuries, myriads of explanations have been offered as to why one is accepted and the other rejected. May I suggest that the reason is not that important to the story (although some of the midrashim suggest some moral lessons). The story is about the reaction of Cain. As a result of the choice of his brother’s sacrifice, Cain is angry and downcast. God encourages him to move forward and be careful not to sin and that things would be better. Unfortunately, Cain is blinded by jealous rage and kills his brother Abel. God confronts Cain and his response is arrogant – Am I my brother’s keeper? According to Rashi and others, God desired to give Cain a chance to repent but he would not do so. His response is a challenge to God even raising the question! Therefore Cain is cursed – he would be a vagrant, alienated from God and from the land.

The end result is that both of the sons of Adam and Eve experience alienation and difficulty. Abel, the righteous faithful one, dies at the hands of a murderer and Cain, the angry and arrogant one, experiences a difficult life of loneliness and alienation. God gives Cain a sign that would protect him from the blood avenger but which also would prolong his sentence. This story is a tragedy. It is the opposite of the blessed life that God desired for mankind. Clearly this was the worst of times.

The story of Cain and Abel is really the story of mankind to this very day. We still live in a world marked by alienation and difficulty. Whether one is a follower of Yeshua or not, we face the hardships and struggles that confronted Cain and Abel. Paul says that even though we have the Ruach HaKodesh and the assurance of a restored relationship with God we still suffer

… And not only this, but also we ourselves, having the first fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting eagerly for our adoption as sons, the redemption of our body (Romans 8:23).

There are many believers who come to God in faithfulness and who bring an acceptable offering with the result being that they are martyrs – literally or figuratively or both. When someone dies in faith as a martyr we call it Kiddush HaShem – the sanctification of the Name. God’s name is revealed as holy in the death of godly ones.

There are many examples in Scripture and throughout history of "Abels" who have been martyred for the sake of righteousness. It reminds me of our own people who have been martyred by those who have "gone the way of Cain" – a result of the sinful condition of alienation and difficulty. In the Brit Chadasha, Yeshua’s death is compared to that of Abel. Hebrews 12:24 brings out the point that the death of Yeshua was like that of Abel, being faithful and righteous, but that Yeshua’s death brings atonement. …and to Yeshua, the mediator of a new covenant, and to the sprinkled blood, which speaks better than the blood of Abel. Another way to be "Abel" is to live for the Lord and die to self interest and selfishness. Notice in the text that Abel never speaks. It is ironic that after he is dead, we read that, The voice of your brother’s blood is crying to Me from the ground (Gen. 4:10). In the Brit Chadashah we read, though he is dead, he still speaks (Heb. 11:4). In other words, an "Abel" speaks loudly in his/her actions of selflessness and martyrdom. On the other hand, many follow the "way of Cain". These are people who bring a sacrifice to God, but with a heart that is cold. It is one who may be angry with God because of expectations that have never been met. Perhaps there is an experience of rejection or of envy. Following the "way of Cain" means living primarily for oneself.

Jude (vss. 8-13) describes the way of Cain as those who are wolves in the flock, whose motives are to destroy, and who deny the Lord. However, we could say that even those who follow Yeshua can fall into the destructive ways of Cain, not to the extent described by Jude, but by cultivating strife and anguish in the community of Messiah. The way of Cain destroys. The way of Abel builds. Yeshua said that we can murder someone with our words or our thoughts. A major lesson is that just like Cain, we have a choice. God said to Cain,

"If you do well, will not your countenance be lifted up? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door; and its desire is for you, but you must master it (Gen. 4:7).

Yes indeed, sin is crouching at the door and we must master it. What will we do? Will we entertain the sin or will we overcome it? Will we be like a Cain or an Abel? Will we be a destroyer or a builder? Through the death and resurrection of Yeshua a process has begun, bringing restoration of blessing to the world. In Messiah we are restored to God and now have the potential to be restored to others. The Scriptures give us hope of the day when the whole world will return to the blessings of Eden.  

Today may we be like Abel, men and women of faith experiencing a restoration of relationship with God, people, and the world around us.

Monsters, Giants and Other Formidable Obstacles

Shelach 5767 – Monsters, Giants and Other Formidable Obstacles

© Rabbi Paul L. Saal

In the spring of 2002 I went to an art exhibit that was featuring a grouping of pictures painted by a good friend who was beginning the process of leaving the safety of a career as a commercial artist and pursuing an art form that was uniquely his own. The collection was entitled quite simply, "Monsters". I was not prepared for the transition in his work. My friend's commercial work had always been clean, crisp and professional and uncluttered. His new art was dark, convoluted, layered and primitive, obscuring warm colors with dark shadows.

What my friend had done was to take his seven-year-old son's crayon drawing of monsters and reinterpret them in a more adult, almost surrealist genre. The oil re-creations hung next to the crayon originals in this sophisticated Massachusetts gallery. Though there was no written explanation of the work, it communicated to me an honest, yet often ignored reality of life. The fears, horrors, and insecurities of our childhoods do not disappear with time as we might imagine, but rather remain buried deep in our psyche only to reemerge in more sophisticated genres and expressions. Unless we deal with, slay, shrink or unmask the monsters and giants of our past, they make a subconscious home next to our "child within."

Giants of Old and Now

The Torah and Haftarah today are related events bridged by Israel's 40 years of wandering, a divine discipline. But more than a punishment for their unfaithfulness, the wilderness experience was God's further preparation for the Israel to endeavor in the Caananite conquest, which they were not yet ready for. The Torah portion begins with Moses sending out twelve agents, one from each tribe to examine the land and give a report to the people. All of the reports expressed that the land they had come to was indeed a good land which did "indeed flow with milk and honey" (Bamidbar 13:28). But ten of the twelve tribes saw only the potential for calamity in the land and could not imagine that the God who had guided them to this land might also deliver it into their hands. Their report is very telling, "we looked like grasshoppers to ourselves, as so we must have looked to them" (13:33). What is even more telling is the reaction of the majority of the people who wept all night and complained about their leadership imagining that they would have all been better off staying in Egypt. In fact they even contemplated heading back to Egypt. In their minds they were still slaves, undeserving of freedom.

On the surface their reaction seems so illogical that it would have been not only silly but also improbable. Of course their lives in Egypt were a 400-year living hell – beatings, starvation, thankless labor, and often-unceremonious deaths at the hands of ruthless masters. Yet how can we explain that even today, in the midst of our "enlightened" society, there are those who remain under the thumb of object abuse? Wives and children who are regularly beaten, employees who stay in thankless underpaid jobs, and devotees who remain in systems of heightened spiritual abuse, exhibit the same tendency to endure the hardship of the known, rather than face the giants and monsters that loom so large in their imagination.

In stark contrast thought, the spies of our Haftarah portion give us a renewed sense of hope. They went into Jericho after forty years of wandering and came out with a completely opposite opinion to their predecessors, "Truly the Lord has delivered into our hands all of the land; and moreover all of the inhabitants of the land melt before us."  What happened from one generation to the next? How did they conquer their fear? They spent forty years observing that an unseen force nurtured, protected and preserved them. They came to believe that the God who had delivered them from bondage for the sake of their fathers, and who had promised them the land they were about to enter, could and would bring it to pass. The fact is, that fear is to courage, what inhaling is to exhaling. It is hope, though, that gives us the courage to do what we are afraid to do. We fear and we hope at the same time; and fear lurks behind hope, just as its bright face hides the dark side of the moon.

The Faces of Courage

Courage has many faces. It can mean saying no to compromise, or it can mean making a difficult compromise. It can entail dying a heroic death or living through terrible pain. It can mean fighting a good fight, or knowing when it is best for all to concede. But always courage involves facing our fears.

Having courage often means enduring when troubles are upon us. This is a kind of passive courage where the real risk is not death but rather genuine life, and hanging on to life when the sullen days of a wearying winter are too long and dark to endure. Mustering this kind of courage that we go on even when we complain inwardly and outwardly, that life is unfair. Morrie Schwartz exemplifies this kind of courage as recorded in the book Tuesdays with Morrie, by Mitch Albom. Morrie was Mitch's beloved professor who he had kept sporadic contact with.  But when Morrie became terminally ill Mitch decided to visit him with regularity. The book documents their every Tuesday meetings and Morrie's rapid physical decline. But as his condition declined his inner courage became more evident.

The Children of Israel certainly endured much torment during the years of enslavement. Much is made of their lapses of faith and mutinous activities, but not enough is spoken of Israel's emerging courage. In large Israel endured despite endless foes and constant threat to their survival, and so it continues today, through inquisition, holocaust, pogrom and jihad, Israel has grown in its passive courage.

But active courage is also essential. This requires us to act well at the risk of danger. We look our fears full in the face and do what we must in spite of it. Israel had to muster this type of courage as they prepared to enter the fortified city of Jericho. It would have been easier to find elsewhere to sojourn. After all they had livestock, and gold and treasures taken from Egypt. Weren't they the descendants of nomads, and after all wasn't their encampments in the wilderness vastly superior to their past life of bondage in Egypt. But that would not have allowed them to fulfill their destiny.

Ruby Bridges is no longer a household name. But when the Louisiana public schools were integrated back in the turbulent 1960's, Ruby was the first little girl cross the line and enter a previously segregated public elementary school. Having only sheriff's deputies and Sate Policemen between herself and the assembly of bigots who came out to spit and hurl insults, the courageous little girl walked the gauntlet to a new school where she would have no friends, no acceptance and no comfort. When interviewed Rubie's mother described why Ruby did what she did, "There's a lot of people who talk about doing good, and a lot of people who argue about what's good and what's not good, but their were also some other folks who put their lives on the line for what's right." Active courage is no more difficult to muster than passive courage, but easier to put off. Much of our procrastination is a sluggish denial of our fears.

Oxford English Dictionary defines courage as "facing danger without fear." This may be a popular opinion, but I think patently untrue. In fact, I believe only people who are afraid truly exhibit courage. Fear is to courage what breathing in is to breathing out. The question is where do we get the strength to do the things we are afraid of? The answer is hope. The spies in the Haftarah are in a sense are the reconstituted courage of Caleb and Joshua who stood up to the masses and their own monsters and giants and believed the promises of God.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer was a German pastor who risked everything to fight thee Nazis. He was put in prison, and from he penned letters that give people hope today. In one wrote this prayer. "Give me the hope that will deliver me from fear and faintheartedness. " He was given hope and hope gave him courage. The nazi's killed Bonhoeffer anyway. But his hope was not unrealized. The Nazis were defeated, and God was seen as he always is, the ultimate victor.

We are often afraid that we are losing the fight, and we suffer fear and anxiety. But hope brings back a faith that we will win. So face those fears, large and small, head on, and echo the words of the Shaliach, "I can do all things through Messiah who strengthens me."